Frequently Asked Questions. Honest answers to the questions most people have. If something isn’t covered here, get in touch directly. There’s no wrong question.
Get in touch by message — WhatsApp or email. To make things quick, include: how you found me, which session you’re interested in (in your own words is fine), location preference (Stanmore, Fitzrovia, or outcall), session length, your name, and a little about what you’re looking for.
That’s all that’s needed. I’ll reply and confirm from there.
At least 2 hours for same-day sessions — I need time to prepare and be fully present. Sessions booked with less notice than that tend not to work well for either of us. For the best availability, a day or two ahead is ideal. Sessions can be booked up to one month in advance.
No. Every session is by appointment only. This isn’t about formality — it’s about making sure I’m properly prepared and the space is right for you when you arrive.
Yes. Just let me know when you get in touch. Include their name and any relevant details about what they’re looking for. Pronouns welcome if useful.
Up to one month ahead. Popular times — evenings, weekends — fill quickly. If you have a specific date in mind, reaching out early is the best way to secure it.
More than 24 hours notice: no charge.
Less than 24 hours notice: fee applies.
If you need to reschedule rather than cancel, get in touch as early as you can and I’ll do my best to find another time.
A sensual or erotic session is usually the best entry point. It gives you a real feel for how the work feels and what your body responds to. The first session is often more about getting comfortable and building trust than anything else. If the energy’s right and you want to go further, we can always discuss upgrading during or after.
Booked time runs door to door — from when you arrive to when you leave. A shower before the session takes 5–15 minutes and is built in. For longer sessions there’s also time to settle and chat before we begin. Approximate hands-on time: 45 min (1h booking), 75 min (1.5h), 105 min (2h).
Yes — once or twice. If you want to upgrade to a different modality or step back to something simpler, ask. If we both agree, we adjust. If not, the session continues as agreed or concludes cleanly — and a new session can start from that point another time. Repeated changes beyond that end the session.
It depends on the session. Conventional massage: no. Erotic massage: one-way touch is the default — mutual touch is a separate conversation. Tantric and other sessions: discussed beforehand. Nothing is assumed. Everything is agreed.
Sessions are clothes-free by default for erotic, tantric, Nuru, and surrogate partner work. For conventional massage, I work clothed. If you have a preference either way, mention it when booking.
Stanmore is my home studio in NW London — the full range of sessions, private facilities, free parking, and a more relaxed pace. It’s where the extended and Nuru sessions take place.
Fitzrovia is a central London studio — a curated selection (sensual, erotic body flow, tantric) at 1h, 1.5h, or 2h. Easy to reach from anywhere in London. Facilities are shared between two treatment rooms.
If you’re not sure which to choose, Stanmore tends to suit people who want more time and space. Fitzrovia suits people who want central London convenience.
A full body-to-body massage using warm Nuru gel. I use my entire body to work yours — sliding, flowing, intensely physical and present. Sessions take place on a PVC or cling film surface, not linen. Available at Stanmore only, 1 hour. A hot bath afterwards is available on request.
All sessions except Nuru — what surface is used? Fresh linen, always. Never paper or disposable coverings.
Erotic, tantric, Nuru, and surrogate partner sessions: yes, always. At Stanmore, the bathroom is private and for your exclusive use — the best option for arriving and getting ready properly. At Fitzrovia, facilities are shared between two treatment rooms.
Conventional massage: not usually. Ask when booking if this matters to you and I’ll confirm in advance.
Yes. If they help you relax and drop into your body, that’s valid and you’re welcome to bring them. I’ll also guide you into what’s possible through touch and presence alone — sometimes the two together can be a powerful combination.
You can reach out, yes. Though it’s worth asking yourself whether you’re in a headspace where you can slow down and actually be present in the session — or whether you need to take the edge off first and come back. The more honest you are about where you’re at, the more I can shape something that actually works for you.
Yes, and it’s more common than you might think. I’ve worked with many men taking a first step — curious, cautious, or somewhere in between. We’d usually start with a conversation before the session, and a more straightforward session type (sensual or conventional massage) to get a feel for the space and how the work feels. There’s no pressure to go further than you’re ready for.
Yes. It takes something to reach out, and I’m glad you did. I’ve worked with men in exactly this position — curious about erotic connection with another man but not sure where to start. Many find that after a few sessions they feel much more at ease with their desires and their body. We’d start with a relaxed conversation first — no pressure, just a chance to talk through where you’re at and how we might work together in a way that feels right.
Cash on the day, before the session begins. I don’t take card payments or hold deposits. For outcall sessions outside London where travel is booked in advance, travel costs may be requested beforehand — this is always discussed and agreed first.
Shower (where available), fresh towel, water, and time to settle before we begin. For outcall within Zone 1–2, travel is included. Beyond Zone 2, travel is charged at actual cost and agreed in advance.
Yes — across London and anywhere in the UK. Zone 1–2 travel is included in the session rate. Zone 3–6: actual travel cost added. Outside London: travel, travel time, and accommodation if needed — all itemised and agreed before I book anything.
Completely. I don’t share names, details, or the fact of your visits with anyone. My practice depends on discretion and I take it seriously — not as a policy, but as a foundation. If you have specific privacy concerns, mention them and I’ll accommodate what I can.
A few layers to this, so I'll break it down.
Every session starts with a conversation. We talk about what you're coming for, what your boundaries are, and what you're not sure about. Nothing is assumed. Consent is explicit, not implied — and it can be withdrawn at any point, no explanation needed.
For any work that involves physical contact and potential body fluid exchange, I use a simple framework I introduce at the start of the session:
🟢 Green — Full fluids exchange agreed. This includes saliva, semen, and other body fluids.
🟡 Amber — Partial exchange only. Kissing, for example, might be included while other fluid contact is not. We define this together.
🔴 Red — No crossing of body fluids. Full barrier between us throughout.
You choose your colour. It's not negotiable once set — meaning I won't push past it — and it can change between sessions as your comfort evolves. There's no pressure around any of the options.
I check in verbally throughout. If something shifts for you — physically, emotionally, energetically — you say so and we pause, adjust, or stop. Full stop is always available, always respected.
I maintain regular STI testing and practise full hygiene protocols between clients. If you want specifics, just ask — I'd rather have that conversation openly than have it sit as an unspoken question.
I've done enough of my own work as a receiver to know how much safety matters — not just on paper but in the room. The protocols exist because I've felt the difference between a session where these things were held properly and one where they weren't. That experience is built into how I work.
Get in touch. There’s no wrong question and no obligation to book when you do.