if you are happy with my offering and rates, please get in touch with me.
Please include in your message:
a) the source like website name, a friend recommended, etc
b) what service, describe in your own words or refer to the source like a video link
c) the location (incall in Stanmore, Fitzrovia or at your place)
d) session lenght for 1h, 1.5h, 2h or more
e) your name, (booking for boyfriend/husband), pronouns if you insist
f) tell me more details about what and how you like "pleasure to be served"
g) YOUR SAFETY PROTOCOL: a) can we talk? b) anything goes c) safest option for me!
e) paying cash, bank transfer, or card.
I know it's a lot, but not rocket science!
Examples:
Message "Hey Tj, I am Tom. I am interested in a Sensual massage at your Place, tomorrow (or on X-day) at 6.30 pm for 90 minutes, paying cash. Please don't like touching my head and fingering my ass, but you can do anything with the rest of my body! Cuddles and slow edging are a must. Thank you"
Answer "Hey, Tom. Thank you. Booking is accepted. The address I will send in advance. Tj"
Message "Hey Tj. I like what you do and want I see it on Twitter! It's my first time. Can I book an Erotic massage for 1 hour at your place (name it) tomorrow midday? Can I take a shower before & after? I need to get back to my desk before 1.30 pm. Tom"
Answer "Hey, Tom. I am available and the room is available. An hour of erotic massage on the futon is £xxx. If you are happy, I will confirm the booking and send the address. Thank you. Tj"
Message "Hey Tj. I am super horny at the moment and looking for a "tantric" massage. Are you available?!"
Answer "Hey, Mr I am happy to help, but I need to understand your needs. Will you be able to relax, or do you need to cum first or be able to last for an hour? Tj "
Message "Hi, Are you available now?"
Answer "Hi. I am not available now! Please give me at least 2 hours notice. You can still try another time, but can't guarantee appoitment. Thanks, Tj
Message "Hi. I saw your advert online. Can I touch you during the massage? Can you be naked?"
Answer "Hi. Yes, you can, and we will talk about it when you arrive. It's not about me - it's about your needs and mutual consent."
Message. "Hi. I like to take poppers during the foreplay to enhance my experince. Can I take it during our meeting?"
Answer. "Hi. Yes, you can. I am not the one to forbid it. If it's the only way you can enjoy an experience, go for it. There are many other ways to enjoy touch and sensuous experiences! I can help you with that if that is what you want!"
Comment. From my personal experince poppers and other staff takes away a lot from the process. If you can learn to listen to your body - no need for any of that, It takes time and years of practice. And also some therapist have no understanding of this concept either. For them it's a routine he was trained in the massage school or Tantic weekend.
Message "Hi. I don't know what I want. Everything looks so delicious. What do you recommend?! "
Answer "Hi. Not sure - go for basic sensual or erotic, and if there is energy and room to upgrade - I am happy to do it for you."
Message "Hi. I student 24 y.o, do you offer discount? Tom "
Answer "Hi Tom, I am not offering discounts or concessions withour reason! Tj"
Message "Hi Tom, I am older man who wanted to to explore my erotic desires to play and touch another men, can you help me? Thanks"
Answer "Hi, yes I have seen many men who were going through the same process as you are. And in many cases after number of meets they felt comfortable with their sexuality and skills they learned and practiced with me. And some got themselves boyfriends. I can explain you over the phone what steps, ideas and plan we can create to achive a clear goal you stated! Thanks, Tj"