Reading the text below isn't required — but if you follow these simple steps, the booking process will take just a few minutes. Or feel free to do it your own way and see how that goes!
If you're happy with my offerings and rates, feel free to get in touch.To make things smooth and quick, please include these details in your message:
a) How you found me (e.g. website name, a friend recommended, etc.)b) Which service you're interested in – describe it in your own words, or refer to the video you like.c) The location (incall in Stanmore or Fitzrovia, or outcall at your place)d) Session length (1h, 1.5h, 2h or longer)e) Your name (and if it's a booking for your boyfriend/husband, just let me know – pronouns if you want to include them)f) A bit more about what you enjoy and how you like to be pleasured & worshipped.g) Your safety protocol – pick one: a) happy to talk on the phone/video first, b) anything goes, c) safest option for me (full screening)I know it's a few things to cover, but it's really not complicated!
Example 1
Message: Hey Tj, I'm Tom! I came across your profile and I'm interested in booking a sensual massage at your place — ideally tomorrow, or if that doesn't work, on [X-day] at 6:30 pm for 90 minutes. I'd be paying in cash. Just a heads up — please keep my head and ass off-limits, but beyond that you're welcome to work with the rest of my body however you see fit. Slow edging and some cuddle time are definitely on my wishlist, so I'd love those to be part of the session. Looking forward to it — hope to hear from you soon!
Reply: Hey Tom, great to hear from you — welcome! Booking confirmed for [date] at 6:30 pm, and noted on your preferences, we'll make sure there's plenty of time for slow edging and cuddles. I'll drop you the address a bit closer to the time, so keep an eye out for my message. See you soon! Tj
Example 2
Message: Hey Tj, I came across your work on Twitter and I love what you do – really glad I found you! This would be my first time booking something like this, so I'm a little new to the process. Would it be possible to book an erotic massage for an hour at your place tomorrow around midday? I'd love to shower before and after if that's okay – I want to feel fresh and relaxed going in. I do need to be back at my desk by 1:30 pm, so timing is a bit tight on my end. Looking forward to hearing from you. Tom
Reply: Hey Tom, great to hear from you – and welcome, first times are always special! I'm free tomorrow and the room is available, so the timing works perfectly. One hour of erotic massage on the futon is £xxx, and yes, you're very welcome to shower before and after – there's plenty of time built in for that. Just bear in mind that with a 1:30 pm deadline, we'd need to get started pretty close to midday to make sure you're not rushing at the end. If you're happy with the rate, let me know and I'll confirm the booking and send over the address. Thanks, Tj
Example 3
Message: "Hey Tj, feeling really turned on (horny) right now and looking for a tantric massage. Are you available?"
Reply: "Hey! Happy to help with that — though I want to make sure we use the time well. Are you in a headspace where you can slow down and relax into it, or do you need to take the edge off first? And can you hold it together for a full hour, or would a shorter session suit you better? The more honest you are with me, the better I can tailor it to what your body actually needs. Looking forward to working with you. Tj"
Example 4
Message: "Hey, I'm feeling pretty horny right now — any chance you're free for a walk-in session now?"
Reply: "Hey! I'm not free at the moment, unfortunately. I do need at least 2 hours' notice to get set up and be fully present for you — it just makes for a much better session all round. Feel free to reach out again when you have a bit more time to plan, though I can't always promise a spot will be open. Appreciate you getting in touch, hope we can make it work another time! Thanks, Tj"
Example 5
Message: "Hi! I came across your advert online. Would it be okay to touch you during the session, and is it alright if you're not wearing clothes?"
Reply: "Hey! Yes to both — we'll have a chat about boundaries and preferences when you arrive, so everyone feels comfortable from the start. Sessions are shaped around your needs, and there's always room to check in as we go. Relaxed, clothes-free contact is totally normal in this kind of work. Looking forward to meeting you!"
Example 6
Message:"Hey! I really enjoy using poppers during foreplay – they help me get into the zone and enhance the whole experience. Would it be okay to bring a few along to our session?"
Reply:"Hey! Absolutely, feel free to bring them – I'm not here to police what works for you. If poppers help you relax and drop into your body, that's completely valid and you're welcome to use them. That said, I do love exploring what's possible through touch and presence alone, because there's often more depth there than people expect. I can guide you into some of that too if you're curious – sometimes the two together can be a pretty powerful combo!"
Example 7
Message: "Hi! I don't know what I want – everything looks so good! What do you recommend?!"
Reply: "Ha, I love that everything appeals to you! If you're unsure, the best place to start is usually a basic sensual or erotic session – it gives you a real feel for how I work and what your body responds to. And honestly, the first session is often more about getting comfortable and building trust than anything else. If the energy's right and we both feel like going deeper, we can always upgrade on the day. Sound good?"
Example 8
Message: Hi, I'm a 24 y.o. student – do you offer any discounts? I'm really interested in your work but want to make sure it fits my budget before I reach out properly.
Reply: Hi, thanks for reaching out! I don't offer discounts or concessions as a general rule – my pricing reflects the time, training, and care that goes into each session. That said, if you'd like to have a chat about what you're looking for and what might work for you, feel free to drop me a message. Tj
Example 9
Message: "Hi Tj, I'm an older man looking to explore my erotic desires and curiosity around touch and intimacy with another man. It's something I've wanted to explore for a while but haven't known where to start. Can you help? Thanks"
Reply: "Hi! Thanks so much for reaching out – it takes courage to take that first step, and I'm really glad you did.
Yes, absolutely – this is very much something I can help with. I've worked with quite a few men in a similar place, curious about touch and erotic connection with another man but not quite sure how to begin. Many find that after just a few sessions they feel much more at ease with their desires, can name them, and with their own body.
We'd always start with a relaxed phone or video chat first – no pressure, just a chance to talk through where you're at, what you're curious about, and how we might work together in a way that feels safe and right for you.
Feel free to reply here or drop me a message to set up a time to talk. Looking forward to hearing from you. Tj"
Example 10
Message: "Hi, I've been into chems for a while now and I'm looking to start my recovery. What would you recommend? I really want to get back to where I was years ago — full sensation, presence, and connection in my body."
Reply: Hi, thanks for being so open about this — it takes courage to reach out. I want to be upfront: I'm not a specialist in chems recovery, but I do have solid personal experience and a decent understanding of the territory.
What I'd suggest is starting slow — a few sessions moving from basic sensual touch through to more erotic territory, gently reconnecting you with your body and its responses on its own terms.
One thing worth naming upfront: as healthy sensation and energy start returning, things can get... lively. So it'll be important for us to set clear agreements together — "what if" boundaries — to keep the focus firmly on your healing rather than getting sidetracked by two bodies waking back up in the room. That container is what makes the work actually work."