Welcome. I'm Tj Tantra.

I didn't set out to become a somatic practitioner. I set out to understand myself.

Growing up between cultures, navigating my identity a s a gay man, and carrying the weight of unspoken things that many of us never learn to name — I found my way to the body almost by accident. Yoga came first, then meditation, then a growing realisation that the answers I was looking for weren't in my head. They were stored somewhere deeper, in sensation, in breath, in the places the body goes quiet or tense without explanation.

That curiosity became a calling. Over the past decade I have trained as a yoga and meditation instructor, an orthodox and tantric massage therapist, a somatic sex educator, and a family constellation facilitator. I am currently completing my Certified Somatic Bodyworker training. Each qualification added knowledge — but it was my own lived experience, my therapy, my mistakes, and my willingness to keep looking honestly at myself, that shaped the practitioner I am today.

I work with individuals and couples who sense that something is waiting to open in them — around intimacy, identity, pleasure, connection, or simply the relationship they have with their own body. My work draws on somatic principles, tantric awareness, and trauma-informed practice. Sessions are led by presence and curiosity, never by agenda.

What I am known for is creating a space where people feel genuinely safe to arrive as they are. No performance required. No part of you needs to be edited before you walk in.

My practice is grounded in three things: consent and safety at every step, non-judgement as a foundation rather than an aspiration, and embodiment — the understanding that real change happens not through insight alone, but through the body learning something new.

If something here is speaking to you, I'd love to hear from you. The first conversation is simply a conversation.

Updated 25Feb26