The same quality of presence and touch, with fewer boundaries around what the body can experience. Rooted in tantric principles — energy, breath, full-body sensation. Less fixed, more spacious.

Designed for

Men who are ready to go beyond a conventional erotic experience — who want something that works with energy and breath as much as with touch. Also for men who have done erotic work with me before and want to go further. Not necessarily the right starting point for a first session.

How to make it work better

Breath is everything in tantric work. If you can arrive with some awareness of your breath — not controlled, just noticed — the session will open more readily. Stay curious rather than goal-oriented. The most useful thing you can do is allow rather than direct.

Setting goals & intention

Tantric sessions benefit from a more open intention than erotic ones. Something like: ‘I want to feel what’s possible’ or ‘I want to experience my body’s energy’ or simply ‘I’m ready to go deeper.’ Avoid fixing on a particular outcome — that tends to work against the session rather than with it.

Discussing & setting boundaries

Boundaries in tantric work are real but more fluid than in a conventional erotic session. We agree the broad shape of the session before we begin, and then allow it to find its own form. This requires a degree of trust — which is why tantric sessions work best with clients I know, or after a more detailed conversation beforehand. Tantric sessions take place on the futon only — the floor-level space suits the energy and movement of this work.  Shower: always available for erotic, tantric, and surrogate partner sessions. Stanmore has a private bathroom for your exclusive use — shower, towels, everything you need to arrive and get ready properly. At Fitzrovia, facilities are shared between two treatment rooms. At Stanmore, a hot bath is also available on request — used after Nuru massage sessions, where soaking afterwards is part of the experience. Available on request.  Upgrade or downgrade: at any point in a session you can ask to move to a higher or lower modality. Both sides must agree — if not, the session continues as agreed or concludes. A new session can begin from where you left off next time.

One-way touch, mostly. I work on you — attentive, unhurried, without agenda. Mutual touch and play are a different kind of session, and a different kind of conversation. This one is about receiving.

Designed for

Men who want to experience skilled, full-body erotic massage without the pressure of reciprocating or performing. Particularly good for men who find it difficult to simply receive, or who want to explore sensation without directing it. Also well suited to men in relationships who want something their partner isn’t positioned to offer.

How to make it work better

Let go of the idea that you need to do anything. Your only role in this session is to feel. If something isn’t working — a pace, a technique, a level of pressure — say so. The session follows your body, not a fixed routine.

Setting goals & intention

Erotic massage works well when you arrive with an open intention rather than a specific outcome in mind. Something like: ‘I want to feel fully present in my body’ or ‘I want to experience pleasure without thinking about it’ tends to be more useful than a goal focused on release.

Discussing & setting boundaries

We discuss before the session what is and isn’t included. One-way touch is the default — I work on you. Mutual touch and genital play are available in some sessions but require a separate conversation. No penetration. No unannounced touch. You set the pace and can redirect or end at any point.

 A recognised therapeutic practice that includes physical and intimate contact, agreed in advance and held with care. A space to explore closeness, ease, and intimacy without the complexity of a personal relationship. Get in touch to discuss what this looks like in practice.

Designed for

Men who want to explore intimacy, touch, and physical connection in a safe and boundaried space. Particularly useful for men who have limited experience of intimate contact, who carry shame or anxiety around sex, who are working through something specific, or who simply want to experience closeness without the weight of a relationship context.

How to make it work better

Honesty before the session is everything. Say what you want clearly, and what you don’t want equally clearly. This kind of session works best when both people know exactly what has been agreed and neither is guessing.

Setting goals & intention

Surrogate partner work benefits from an intention that goes beyond the physical. What do you want to feel? What do you want to be different afterwards? Connection, ease in your body, reduced anxiety around intimacy, a sense of being accepted — any of these is a valid and useful starting point.

Discussing & setting boundaries

Everything is discussed before the session begins. What is included, what isn’t, safety considerations, and anything you need me to know. There are no default assumptions. Boundaries are agreed together and held throughout. I reserve the right to decline or redirect anything that wasn’t discussed in advance.

An intensely physical, full body-to-body massage using warm Nuru gel. TJ uses his entire body to work yours — sliding, flowing, deeply present. One of the most immersive physical experiences available. Stanmore only. 1 hour.

Designed for

Men who want maximum physical contact and immersion. Nuru is not subtle — it is full, direct, and deeply sensory. Well suited to men who find they respond more to physical sensation than to subtle energy work, or who simply want an experience that is completely unlike anything else.

How to make it work better

Arrive ready to let go of any self-consciousness about your body. Nuru works through total physical contact — the less you hold back, the more you get from it. A shower before the session is recommended. Allow time afterwards for the hot bath if you want it — it is part of the experience, not just a practical measure.

Setting goals & intention

Nuru works best with a simple, physical intention: full presence, full contact, no agenda beyond the body. If you arrive with a goal, let it be this: to feel everything.

Discussing & setting boundaries

The session takes place on a smooth, clean surface — PVC sheeting or cling film, laid fresh for each client. Warm Nuru gel is used throughout. The session is one hour. A hot bath is available on request after the session at Stanmore. This is the only session where a bath is available. All other sessions at Stanmore and Fitzrovia use fresh linen — never paper.  Shower: available at Stanmore before the session. Private bathroom, exclusively for your use.  Upgrade or downgrade: Nuru can be followed by or combined with another modality if both sides agree — discuss before the session begins.

Skilled therapeutic bodywork, exactly as TJ was trained — in a school, to a professional standard. Deep tissue, Lomi Lomi, Thai, and stretch, on the table, clothed. This is the work itself: grounded, complete, and fairly priced. No extras, no assumptions. Open to everyone.

Designed for

Anyone who wants skilled, professional therapeutic massage. Men who are new to working with TJ and want a straightforward starting point. Anyone who carries tension, stress, or physical discomfort and simply wants it addressed with skill. And those who need to learn to trust first — conventional massage is the ideal point of first contact, and can be agreed to upgrade to another modality or session type after a short consultation. Open to all, including women.

How to make it work better

Be specific about what your body needs. If there’s an area that’s been troubling you, say so at the start. If there are areas you’d rather not have worked on, that’s equally useful to know. Arriving a few minutes early helps — it gives you time to settle before we begin.

Setting goals & intention

A simple, honest intention works best here. It might be: relieve tension in a specific area, improve sleep, decompress after a difficult period, or feel physically cared for. Even ‘I just want an hour where someone looks after me’ is a valid and useful starting point.

Discussing & setting boundaries

This is a clothed session on the massage table, with clear professional limits. TJ was trained to this standard and works to it. A brief external genital massage is available at the end if you want it — always discussed beforehand, never assumed. No mutual touch, no erotic play during the treatment. This is the work itself, nothing more and nothing less.  Shower: not usually available for conventional massage sessions. If this is important to you, please ask when booking and it will be confirmed in advance.  Upgrade or downgrade: at any point during a session, you can ask to upgrade to a different modality or step back to something simpler. This only happens if both sides agree — if not, the session continues as agreed or concludes, and a new session can begin from that point at another time.