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The time you book is the time you have — from the moment you arrive to the moment you leave. A shower before or after takes around 5–15 minutes and is built into that. On longer sessions there's also room to chat before we begin. No rush at either end.

Every incall session includes a shower, fresh towel and water, in a private bathroom for your exclusive use. Fresh linen every time — never paper. Payment is cash or bank transfer on the day; no cards.

Upgrade or downgrade. At any point in a session you can ask to move to a higher or lower modality. Both of us have to agree — if not, the session continues as it was or ends there, and a new session can pick up from that point next time. Nothing changes without a clear yes from both sides.

20% off any session 90 min or longer — Stanmore incall only, booked at least 24 hours in advance. All sessions 18+. Cash or bank transfer on the day. Outcall across London: price on enquiry.

(*) (The 30-minute option is only available for Naked Relaxing, and is full price — the Thursday discount applies to sessions of 90 minutes or longer.)

Futon. Grounded, on the floor, room to breathe and move. Can open with an undressing ritual if you want one.

Purpose. Breath, energy, full-body sensation — less fixed than erotic, more open to where it goes. The advantage is depth: with the frame looser, there's room for things to surface that a structured session would move past. Internal anal massage is available here, talked through beforehand. Best with returning clients or after a proper conversation first.

Receiving. Breath and voice are the whole practice. Breathe with the sensation, let it be heard rather than held in, notice where the pleasure lands and where it comes from. As we go deeper I might ask what you're noticing as one thing meets another, and whether anything wants to change in pace or pressure. You lead by what you feel; I follow.

The mutual aspect. Tantric is where two-way flow lives most naturally. If you want to move from receiving into giving — to touch me, to bring your pleasure toward mine — we can, when it's spoken and mutual. The way to ask is direct and unhurried: "I want to give to you now." Nothing about that is owed, and nothing is assumed; it opens only if we both want it open.

Authentic, not performed. This is the heart of it for me: it's not what we do, it's how we do it. A tantric session can be run beautifully and be completely empty — presence with better PR. So the one thing I ask is that you stay honest. Real breath over impressive breath, real sound over the sound you think I want. If it goes quiet and still and true, that's not a session failing — that's it working.

Default light: energy, breath and internal work (talked through beforehand) can be green; two-way contact is amber and named as it arises. The traffic-light system runs throughout.

Designed for. Men ready to go beyond a conventional erotic experience — who want something that works with energy and breath as much as touch. Also for men who've done erotic work with me before and want to go further. Not usually the right first session.

To make it work. Breath is everything here. Arrive with some awareness of your breath — not controlled, just noticed — and the session opens more readily. Stay curious rather than goal-oriented; the most useful thing you can do is allow rather than direct.

Setting your intention. Keep it open — "I want to feel what's possible," "I want to experience my body's energy," or simply "I'm ready to go deeper." Fixing on a particular outcome tends to work against the session.

Table or futon. Usually the table, oiled, so I can work slow and sustained. Futon if you'd rather be moved and stretched into it.

Purpose. One-way touch with a clear frame. I work on you; scope is set before you arrive. The advantage of that structure is freedom — when the edges are clear, you don't have to hold anything, and you can let go completely inside them. External anal massage is available here.

Receiving. This is the art of being worked on well. The best way to receive is to breathe into it and let your voice out — put sound to the sensation as it moves, notice where it lands and where it rises from. If we drop to a somatic level I'll ask what you're noticing as this or that unfolds, and whether you want anything changed in the style or the pressure. There's no wrong answer, only what's true.

The mutual turn. Some people reach a point where they want it to flow both ways — to touch me, to turn me on, to not only be the patient. That's allowed, but it's named first, never assumed, and it changes the shape of the session (and sits closer to surrogate work). If you feel it rising, say so plainly: "I'd like to give too." We'll decide together, in the moment, whether it fits.

Authentic, not performed. The moment you're pleasuring me to be impressive rather than because you want to, we've crossed into performance — and I'll feel it, because I've spent years learning to feel exactly that. This work only stays alive when the sound and the movement come from real sensation. If you catch yourself acting, you don't have to fix it smoothly; just tell me, and we'll find the real thing again.

Default light: one-way erotic touch on you is green within the scope we set; two-way contact starts at red. The traffic-light system runs throughout.

Designed for. Men who want skilled, full-body erotic massage without the pressure of reciprocating or performing. Especially good if you find it hard to simply receive, or want to explore sensation without directing it — and for men in relationships who want something a partner isn't positioned to offer.

To make it work. Let go of the idea that you need to do anything. Your only role is to feel. If a pace, a technique or a pressure isn't working, say so — the session follows your body, not a fixed routine.

Setting your intention. Arrive open rather than aimed at a specific outcome — "I want to feel fully present in my body" or "I want pleasure without thinking about it" works better than a goal fixed on release.

Table or futon. Oil work on the table, or clothed-to-bare compression and stretch on the futon — we choose based on what your body wants that day. Table for melting and surrender; futon for movement, opening, being worked through.

Purpose. At its core this is a proper classical massage, done naked — full body, real technique, nothing between you and the touch. The naked element isn't a category, it's a condition of openness: no draping, no part of you meant to stay hidden. It stays a massage the whole way through, and toward the end it can carry a light sensual, edging quality — building and easing without rushing anywhere. This is the gentlest of the sessions and the easiest place to start if you're new to the work. It's also the only session offered as a short 30-minute option (£50) — a simple, no-pressure taster if you want to feel what this is like before committing to longer.

The frame. One-way — I work on you, you receive. No exchange of fluids. That clear, simple boundary is part of what makes it easy to relax into: you know exactly what it is and what it isn't.

Receiving. Your only job is to let it land. The best way to receive is to stop helping — don't brace, don't arrange yourself, don't perform ease you don't feel. Let your breath drop, let sound out if it comes, let the sensation move. I'll follow what your body tells me, so the more honestly you're in it, the more I have to work with.

Authentic, not performed. You don't owe me a show. The moans that matter are the real ones — the ones you couldn't have planned. If you find yourself putting on pleasure to seem like a good client, that's the line; let it go and come back to what's actually happening. I'd rather have your honest small breath than a big performed one.

Default light: the massage is green from the start; the edging quality at the end opens only when we've talked it through. One-way throughout, no fluid exchange. The traffic-light system runs the whole time.

Designed for. Anyone who wants skilled, full-body massage with the ease of being fully undressed — and the gentlest way in if you're new to the work or learning to trust first.

To make it work. Be specific about what your body needs, and about anywhere you'd rather not be worked on. Arriving a few minutes early helps you settle.

Setting your intention. Something simple and honest — "I want an hour where someone looks after me" is a perfectly good place to start.

This one needs its own setup: a special container of thick Nuru gel, warmed, that lets me move over you skin to skin in one continuous, sleek glide — head to toes and back, my whole body carrying the massage rather than just my hands. At its best it feels less like a massage and more like the two of us swimming in warm lubricant.

Purpose. It's the most explicitly sexual thing I offer, and it's meant to be — highly arousing by nature, built around full body-to-body contact. This option includes anal penetration as part of the movement. Because of the gel, the surface and the space it needs, Nuru is available at the Stanmore studio only.

A note on fit. Nuru works best over muscle or a little more weight — the glide needs soft tissue to move across. Over bony frames it can get uncomfortable, even painful, so if you're very lean it may not be the right choice, and I'll say so honestly rather than sell you something that won't land well. Message me first if you're unsure and we'll talk it through.

Default light: this session starts amber and opens toward green — it's sexual by design, but the specifics (including penetration) are still talked through and confirmed before we begin, and the traffic-light system runs throughout.

Designed for. Men who want maximum physical contact and immersion. Nuru isn't subtle — it's full, direct, deeply sensory. Well suited if you respond more to physical sensation than to subtle energy work, or just want an experience unlike anything else.

To make it work. Arrive ready to let go of any self-consciousness about your body — the less you hold back, the more you get from it. Shower before; allow time afterwards for the hot bath if you want it, which is part of the experience, not just practical.

Setting your intention. Keep it physical and simple: full presence, full contact, no agenda beyond the body. If you arrive with a goal, let it be to feel everything.

The setup. A smooth, clean surface laid fresh for each client, warm Nuru gel throughout, and a private bathroom for your exclusive use. A hot bath is available afterwards on request — the only session where that's offered.

A three-hour deep-dive session that combines ceremonial opening, spiritual reading using Family Constellation tools, and transformative erotic massage. This is not three separate things — it's one integrated experience designed to unlock your erotic potential, clarify what you actually want, and release what's been blocking your pleasure and aliveness.

Structure

Rapé Ceremony (15 minutes): A ceremonial opening that helps you get crystal clear about what you actually want erotically. It cuts through the noise — what you think you should want vs. what genuinely turns you on. It grounds you in your authentic desire and boundaries so the reading and massage that follow can be deeply responsive to your real needs, not performed fantasy.

Spiritual Reading with Family Constellation (1 hour 15 minutes): Using Family Constellation tools and erotic awareness, we explore what's living in your body — inherited shame, family patterns, beliefs about sexuality that don't belong to you, blocks to your pleasure. This work illuminates what's been restricting your erotic expression and creates space for authentic desire to emerge.

Erotic Massage (1 hour 15 minutes): Deep, sensual touch that completes the work. Your body now knows what it's releasing, what it's choosing, what it needs to experience. The massage meets you fully — sexually, somatically, presently — allowing integration and aliveness.

Who Is This For?

Men ready to explore their sexuality authentically. Men carrying shame or blocks around pleasure. Men wanting to understand what's really driving their desires and patterns. Men ready to experience their body as it actually wants to be touched.

What You'll Experience

Arrival and grounding through ceremony. Clarity about sexual shame and inherited blocks. Release of what's been restricting your pleasure. Full-body aliveness and genuine erotic presence.

After the Session

Your body will be integrating for days. Some men feel sexually liberated. Some feel emotional release. Some feel a new sense of aliveness they haven't experienced before. All of it is the work completing itself. Rest, integrate, notice what shifts in your sexuality and presence.

How to Book

Contact me to discuss whether this offering aligns with where you are. A consultation is required before booking this session, especially for first-time clients. This is deep work and I want to make sure it's the right timing and fit for you.

If you insist on proceeding without a preliminary conversation, we can discuss that, but I strongly recommend we talk first.

Contact: Use any channel that works for you — WhatsApp, Telegram, email, text or call.

Surrogate & connection work (POA). The deepest and most mutual of everything I offer — usually across several sessions, with a full intake first.

This work isn't about me, and it isn't romance. It never has been. It's practical, somatic learning aimed almost always at one thing: helping you become a confident, capable partner — most often the best bottom you can be for your partners or your groups, and, if that's your direction, a better top too. We work on the real challenges: what your body does under pressure, where it tenses and why, how to open, how to stay present, how to communicate in the moment.

Underneath the technique it's boundary and limit work. We meet your edges honestly — the physical ones and the ones in your head — and expand them at a pace your nervous system can actually hold. Deep somatic work, not performance: the goal is that you never disappoint yourself or your partner again, not because you're performing well, but because you're genuinely at home in what's happening.

And size doesn't matter here — not yours, not a partner's. This is about capacity, presence and trust in your own body, which have nothing to do with measurements.

For some people this work is also part of recovering from chemsex — coming back to sex that's felt fully, sober and present, after a period where it was tangled up with substances. There's no lecture and no judgement here; just the slow relearning of how much your own body can hold on its own. Part of that is practical: learning to reach for breath where you might once have reached for poppers — using breathwork to heighten sensation, open the body and deepen orgasm, so the intensity comes from you rather than from a bottle. This is harm-reduction support and somatic relearning, not clinical treatment; if you're working through dependency, it sits alongside proper care rather than replacing it. I want to be straight about where this comes from: I'm not a trained chemsex-recovery specialist and I don't claim to be. What I offer here grows out of my own lived involvement — including personal experience and my own research — and years of honest conversations with clients who've walked this. It's peer support and somatic work, offered alongside proper professional help, never in place of it.

Because it's built entirely around you, price and shape are set together at intake.

Designed for. Men who want to explore intimacy, touch and connection in a safe, boundaried space — especially if you have limited experience of intimate contact, carry shame or anxiety around sex, are working through something specific, or want closeness without the weight of a relationship.

To make it work. Honesty before the session is everything. Say what you want clearly, and what you don't want just as clearly. This works best when both people know exactly what's been agreed and neither is guessing.

Setting your intention. Let it go beyond the physical — what do you want to feel, and what do you want to be different afterwards? Ease in your body, less anxiety around intimacy, a sense of being accepted: all valid places to start. 

None of this comes from thinking I know better. We all carry our limits for our own reasons, and those reasons make sense even when they're never spoken. I hold mine the way you hold yours. So this isn't a rulebook — it's just how I try to keep the space honest for both of us.

We talk first. Before you arrive, we have a conversation — what you're drawn to, what you're curious about, what you'd rather leave out. Nothing is assumed. Whatever we land on together is what shapes the session.

Your edges are yours. Wherever your limits sit, they're the right ones. You don't have to explain them or make them match anyone else's. I'd rather know where they are than guess — but if you'd rather feel your way there slowly, that's fine too.

The session can move — and we stay honest as it does. Things shift. A massage can open into something slower and more alive; that's welcome. When the feeling of it changes, we stay awake to that together rather than drifting. If we're moving somewhere new, I'll check in. Fluidity is the good part; losing track of each other isn't.

Giving and receiving. For most of this work, you receive and I give. That's not about hierarchy — it's a container, something that lets you set down the managing and just be met. If that's ever going to shift, we name it first, together.

The traffic-light system — how we stay safe. The simplest way to keep a session honest is a shared language we can both use without breaking the flow:

  GREEN — yes, this is good, more, keep going.

  AMBER — slow down, ease off, I'm near an edge, check in with me.

  RED   — stop. Everything stops, straight away, no explanation owed.

The colours also live in the body, not just in words — and that's often where they show up first:

  GREEN — body soft and open, breath moving freely, weight let go.

  AMBER — breath shortening, muscles starting to grip, a held stillness.

  RED   — tension, stress, or the body going into freeze — braced, shut down, gone quiet in a way that isn't rest.

You can say the word, or I'll ask "where are you — green, amber, red?" at any point, and either of us can call any colour at any time. Red always wins instantly. Amber isn't a failure — it's the most useful thing you can give me, because it tells me exactly where your edge is so we can stay just inside it.

And it isn't only words. I'm reading your body the whole time, so stillness, a held breath, a bracing muscle all read as amber to me, and I'll check in. If your body drops into a freeze — tense, far away, shut down — I treat that as red and stop, even if nothing's been said.

Fluids are a separate flag. The traffic-light system is about pace and consent in the moment — it moves and flexes as we go. Body fluids are not on that scale. They're a standing safety boundary, set by the session and by sexual-health limits, and they don't shift with the colours. Green never means "anything goes" where fluids are concerned. What's exchanged and what isn't is agreed plainly beforehand and held for the whole session, regardless of how green things feel.

Where each session starts. Every session opens at a default setting, and we move from there — never the other way round. The more basic the session, the more that's parked at red until we've talked it through:

  Tantric — energy, breath and internal work (talked through) can be green; two-way is amber.

  Erotic  — one-way erotic touch on you is green; two-way starts red.

  Naked   — massage is green; anything sexual starts RED.

  Nuru — sexual by design, opens toward green; specifics confirmed first.

  Surrogate — fully negotiated at intake, nothing preset.

Nothing moves off red without a clear, spoken yes. Green is never assumed.

Curiosity is welcome. You can ask for something you've never asked for. You can be unsure. You can change your mind halfway through. None of that obligates you to anything, and nothing you're curious about is going to be judged — I've been curious about all of it too. Whatever new comes — a new move, a new sensation — is introduced slowly. Nothing is forced, ever. If your body doesn’t want it, it will resist and fight back no matter how much your mind wants it, and that’s worth listening to. Being a little out of balance is normal here; it’s part of meeting something new, not a sign anything is wrong.

What you can ask for. Anything you'd like to talk through — a kind of touch, a pace, an intention. Ask, and we'll see together whether it fits the session. Asking is always alright. A yes just depends on what feels right for both of us on the day.

The few things I'll hold. There are a small number of places I won't go: past what we've actually talked through, or beyond the session you came for. Internal work only where it's offered, and only after we've talked it over. And if a boundary — yours or mine — is being pushed past, I'll bring the session gently to a close. Not as judgement. Just as care.

A note on now. This is what I offer in this season of my life. I'm here for it today, and I hold it with everything I've learned so far. Whether I'll still be offering this in a few years, I honestly don't know — bodies change, lives change, mine included. So if something here calls to you, maybe don't wait too long to come and meet it.